General:
Andrew is, I cannot stress this enough, a trigger landmine. He doesn't like being touched, he has sexual trauma, and every sexual encounter he consents to has to be controlled by him with an iron fist. Also he's gay.
D/s:
Andrew needs to be in control of sexual situations. He is absolutely not submissive, hates the idea, and will react badly to being put in that kind of situation. It can be earned with trust, though.
Oral:
In terms of giving, Andrew is fine as long as the other person doesn't touch him. For recieving, Andrew is a bit more touchy about this and is unlikely to accept without established cr.
Anal:
Andrew is canonically a top, no exceptions. I'm personally willing to fuck around with that, but be aware it is a canonical trigger and will put him in... a dark place, mentally. The whole thing will read pretty dub con, if you're not into that.
Bondage/Restraints:
Because he doesn't like being touched, Andrew is icly fon of using restraints on people. He is not a huge fan of them being used on him, but might consent with trust.
Enthusiastic Consent:
Because of his specific traumas, Andrew likes knowing that he has consent for everything he does. If his partner is enthusiastic, he'll be happier with an encounter. He also likes to be asked for his consent to things.
Objectification:
For canon reasons relating to CSA, Andrew tends to be reluctant about this specific kink and it's a bit triggering to him. OOCly, I'm fine with this! But it's easier with some enthusiastic consent from his partner.
Daddy Kink:
It does... literally nothing for Andrew to be called daddy. He will also generally refuse to call someone daddy, for trauma reasons. Basically this is a "work up to it" kind of thing, but 100% not an ageplay thing for Andrew.
CBT/Ballbusting:
If someone gives him consent/asks for it, Andrew is perfectly willing to dish out CBT. He is less willing to be on the recieving end without established trust, though. It's just not a big kink for him.
Humiliation:
Humiliation doesn't really affect Andrew negatively or positively, so this is a bit of a tricky one. He's 100% willing to dish out sick burns, though. He might even do it without explicit consent.
Mpreg/Eggpreg:
ICly, Andrew would hate this! He hates stuff happening to him that he can't control. On an OOC level I just hate... graphic birth scenes. It's easier with eggpreg, but in general I prefer to skip birth entirely and do the other parts.
Vore:
On an OOC level, I prefer soft vore to hard vore. This is also definitely a thing I prefer to plan beforehand so please contact me about it if it's a thing? It's just something that needs some set-up.
Ageplay:
Please note the ABDL and dipers in the hard limits section. This is one where Andrew is fine if it's the other person, but participating himself will be triggering so I'd just like to touch base beforehand.
Watersports:
This is just a kink where Andrew would only be okay with it if he's got an established connection with someone. OOCly, I prefer the omorashi side of things but I'm fine with other aspects.
Bloodplay:
Sexy vampire feeding? Yeah. Knifeplay that involves blood? Definitely. Basically this is one you should definitely ask about so we can plot slightly beforehand about it.
Weight Gain/Inflation:
Thiiiiiiis one is oocly difficult, because I formerly had an eating disorder! It's not impossible, it just needs a lot of ooc communication before it happens. Inflation is easier, but the whole category is iffy.
Gore:
Exy is a pretty violent sport, so gore isn't out of the question for Andrew. He's much more willing with consent, though, so this is an "ask so we can discuss" type of thing!
Aphrodisiacs:
Because Andrew is so deeply into control because of his trauma, aphro can be a bit triggering for him once it wears off. Please just contact me to discuss so nothing becomes triggering irl!
Dubcon/CNC:
CNC is more of a "ask so we can work out details" type of thing. Because Andrew's aphro aversion, other types of dubcon can edge closer to noncon without some discussion so. Just discuss with me first!
"Please":
Because of canon events, Andrew vehemently hates the word "please." He will be upfront about this, and it is an extremely hard limit for him because it's a trigger.
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